SPECIAL GREATING 2 EVERY PATIENCE MEN @ HOME:

SPECIAL GREATING 2 EVERY PATIENCE MEN @ HOME:
I know practically dt it is nt easy coping wt we women @all times witout any rows or barriers under ur roof. Although a husband & wife, who form a joint family life, share & cooperate in running d affairs of thier house, they might feel dt it shu be he who decide abt family affairs, with his wife's indisputable agreement.

@ d same time his wife may object 2her role as d obedient party. Arguments & rows may den start bcus both parties attempt 2 establish thier authority over d other. Like Dr mrs who find hard 2 kneel down 4 her mother in-law due 2d fact, she was in uniform. Her husband due pull out 2shake hand with her dad bcus he was in Army uniform. And dis little barrier caused m 2involved in d matter @Lome.

D best solution 2 such a problem is dt both should try 2 refrain frm acting as superior 2 d other &dialogue with deep mutual understanding.

Trully my fellow cabinet proof dt many women are sturbon dis days due 2 the fact dat they are equal in education, finacial status wt thier husband. If dt shu b d case sincerely & after much tolerance of d man, d 4llowing ar d way he can take to deal wt her instead of hitting her as commonly found by many men presently.

(A) EMOTIONAL PUNISHMENT 4WOMEN. Emotionally, u can deal wt ur spouse nt 2d extents of allow him or her 2 commit sucide.
The 1st stage is giving advice. How many men enjoy doin dis, i saw Alaji Folawiyo b4 he dead, &see d way he do lecture his wives.

2nd, d man shu avoid sharing her bed or turn his back 2wards her, &in dis way he shu show his anger nt publicly bt privatly (dats 2 say, whn u r in palour dnt act as if u has anything against her in presence of ur kids, or friends, he might want 2 kis u, kis her back,bt in ur inner room deny her of dt).

If nothing positive happens @d end of d 2nd stage & stil d woman continues 2refuse her husband, he is permitted show some kind of action of annoyance, bt wt better understanding dt, u ar nt expert too.

(B). PHYSICAL PUNISHMENT 4WOMEN:
A man, however is nt permitted 2 surpass d prescribed limit & resort 2 oppression. Men r reminded of d following.
1. D aim of physical punishment of one's wife shu be a way of education & nt dt of taking revenge.

2. Hitting shu b done by hand or by using a sleeve of cloth.

3. Hitting 2d extent dt results in changing d colour of d sking(2blue or red) is nt permitted, no matter how sturbon ur wife is.

4. Hitting of sensitive parts of d body such as d eyes, head etc as commonly found by african men is nt permitted.

5. Phyical purnishment shu nt b so hard as 2 create hatred & ill-feeling btwn d couple, or 2 drive d wife 2wards mor disobedience act.

6. A man (who intends 2 punish his wife in dis manner) shu remember dt he is 2 live wt his wife & dt d family lov shu nt destroy.

7. A man is nt allowed 2 hit his wife if there r legitimate reasons 4 her non-compliance wt his wishes. E.g, if she is in d state of menstration, fasting in d month of Ramadan, even it is supported biblically dt man shu not 4 any reason whtsoever hitt a sick, fasting or mestral woman.

8. Avoid her food which she has so much labour 2 prepare is biblically, islamically, culturally & ideologically suport. As jus 2 make her feel bad of wht she has done so wrong.

SOME WOMAN WHO LOV HOLDING CLOTHES ON THIER HUSBAND NECK.
It has been recently helping in India societies dt if such a thing happen, man shu pretend so much @dis level 2 save souls. He shu jus draw her head nearer & give such a woman a deep kiss, till she will felt arose.

Further more, if such incident occur in presence of thier children, man is adviced 2make d kiss too light & found way of pushing or dragging d woman 2wards her room.

Enviromentally, millions of Africa couples live in a face-2-face house, &billion of dem used a room even wt thier kids & since there is no way to prevent such a thing in any family. It is adviced dt d man shu find where 2sit his ass as d woman hold d cloths against his neck, & shu demostrated 2b in total peace wt her during d period & find a way 2disguise as if he has grow weak lik acting lik fainting. There no woman who will lov to kill her husband. So seen her husband dying, she will loose d clothes on him.

RIGHT OF MEN OVER WIVES PUNISHEMNT:
i learn many women hard 2change d way of her normall outing once already married. It can b truth, outing of woman afta married shu b of limit bt nt 2b deprive of all outing.

This right of men is not meant to be a show of strenght or an attempt @ putting pressure on thier wives, bt a means of preventing women frm goin to undesirable and unsuitable places.

Woman is a weakness being, pls adopt enough skill and concreate experience to live with us.

WHT ARE OTHER MEANS DO U HAV OR KNOW DT MAN CAN USED TO PUNISH HIS WIFE WTOUT HITTING HER?

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